Stuff I don't really want to know

A coworker of my husband is looking at taking her son to our daycare. He is just a couple of months younger than Rylie. She has been going to the class and sitting for an hour each day this week. She came back yesterday and told Joe that Rylie sat on the floor and cried and her teacher did nothing about it. Uhm, thanks for nothing!!! I don't want to hear shit like that. I am a realist - I know that she cries during the day, I know that she doesn't get picked up right away. There isn't much I can do about it. In some ways, I think it can be good, if she gets held all day then she won't ever learn that it's okay to play on her own. On the flip side, you never know how much is too much. But, the bottom line is that I don't know what I can do about it. Besides quit my job and stay home. And of course vow to never let her cry. Because it's not like she doesn't cry at home. I know she isn't feeling great this week, and honestly she has tested my patience at times too. But I can't take the week off when she has the sniffles. Again, not a damn thing I can do about it. Now I am pissed and grumpy and feeling guilty. Again, thanks for nothing.